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some pins to start january

Hello and Happy New Year from our corner of Michigan. The holidays are over and I think we are all looking forward to getting back to a more regular schedule. The kiddo spent seven full days of her holiday break sick – it could have been the monster flu that’s been going around, or in retrospect, maybe even Covid – either way, not a fun Christmas for her. Luckily – knock wood – neither Brandon nor I have come down with it… fingers crossed. My home office aka Santa’s workshop aka the dumping ground- is an absolute wreck but since I went back to work on the 2nd at least my inbox isn’t too bad at this point.

I have my Hobonichi planners organized- my day planner for 2026 as well as a brand new 5-year journal, as I finished the last one and shelved it. I splashed out for a Galen leather cover for the 5-year since I didn’t think I could handle the cheap plastic cover that comes standard.

So with that I feel at least somewhat prepared to return to daily life, although I have no intent to have an aggressively productive month of diets or challenges. January is winter. It is short days, long nights, deep freeze, low biorhythms, near-hibernation and all I really want to do is lean into that.

It’s going to be a big year here – the year the kiddo graduates from high school and takes the first steps out of our nest, and other big things that I think are on the horizon but don’t want to talk about just yet. I don’t have “real” resolutions for 2026, but I do have some things that I’d like to do more of. In no particular order, I’d like to do more baking, and enjoy cooking more; I have pin boards full of recipes that I’ve never tried because I get into a weekly rut. I’d like to slow down even more – take my time with things, especially at work, and try to connect to the flow state that makes work feel gratifying. Be more measured and thoughtful in my responses and reactions – invest more in things that matter, especially my own peace. Drink more tea, wake up earlier, knit more, write more, care less about what people I don’t like are doing (particularly on social media).

So – yes to this.

I keep thinking about a new tattoo but I can’t decide on what it should be. I have foxes, owls, crows, and fish pinned on my Tattoo board and now this has struck my fancy.

I love this look, especially the wool socks with the sneakers, and the wool coat. Funny aside – before the kiddo got sick we had a day out shopping and lunching in a posh suburb. She wore her dark blue Adidas sneakers and tried on my grey cashmere coat and I thought she looked very hip. She, however, shed the coat in disgust, proclaiming, “It looks like I’m wearing a BLAZER.” …kids.

I *would* put ‘do my nails more often’ on my short list of New Year’s ‘things I’d like to do more of’ except I know myself and know that this would not be a success. I think I have to save nice nails for retirement. In the meantime, I have a pin board full of beautiful examples to yearn for.

Lastly, a bonus cat for sticking around to the end. Happy New Year!

last one of 2024

The last week or so has been pretty undisciplined over here. I started pulling apart my home office to reorganize it for the New Year and it is still in that classic organization-in-process state of “far more of a mess than when I started”. I hope to get a jump on the “back to normal” routine before my real “back to work” happens on Thursday. Brandon is coming home from a family trip and I have to run out to the airport to pick him up; after, it will be our last big decadent holiday meal (ham and homemade baked mac & cheese) but I’m skipping the champagne.

I don’t make resolutions per se but I do try to consider what is working for me and what isn’t. A few of the “keep” and “magnify” list for 2025:

Physical Health:

  • Walking more (I’ve been a runner for 10+ years but have not been committed to the consistency of just walking, in the evening or when a run isn’t possible)
  • Adding in strength training (see above – I don’t go full on, just a few short kettlebell workouts a week has felt really good)
  • Magnesium supplement has been amazing for my sleep
  • Upping my protein
  • Sticking to a few boring yet consistent meals for breakfast and lunch – low points, high fiber and protein

Mental / Emotional Wellbeing:

  • Journaling more, both here and on paper
  • Staying ‘in my lane’ – avoiding drama and arguments when I can, limiting my exposure to people that stress me out or feel toxic (when I can)
  • Remembering that taking care of myself and spending time with Brandon, my daughter, and my loved ones is just as much of an important job as my 9 to 5 and deserves just as much energy and commitment
  • Spending as much time as I need to be alone and inwardly-focused
  • Multiple meditation sessions a week; I’d love to amplify this in 2025 to a more daily, consistent practice.
  • Indulging in the activities that bring me joy – knitting and fiber arts, trying new crafts, making candles, looking to vlogs, blogs, books and media for creative inspiration, reading and writing. I’d like to get back to creative writing in 2025.
  • I’d like to find a volunteer opportunity or take advantage of smaller opportunities for giving – donations to the local food pantry, knitting mittens for the Mittens 4 Detroit initiative, etc. One of my larger goals as I approach retirement (which is still fairly far off, but visible way in the distance) is to start gradually lessening the time and emotional energy I invest in my 9 to 5 and amplifying the time I can spend doing volunteer work outside the home. This is definitely a longer-term goal as having a house, a partner, a teenager, and a slightly more than full-time job (and being an introvert) does not currently afford me enough time (in my estimation) to take on a volunteer role. But I am committed to keeping that as a goal as I begin in the next 10 years to ramp down my work life.
  • Spending as much time as I can with my daughter. She is in the final two years of high school and before I blink, she will be spreading her beautiful wings to fly ever farther from my nest and I want to fully enjoy all of the time I have with her, while I have her under my roof.

Honestly I kind of hate New Year celebrations so the best thing I’ve found for me has been to just stay midstream and keep going like usual. But if it’s your jam then I hope you enjoy the evening! 2024 was by no means an easy year, so on the arbitrary calendar delineation day, I want to take a moment to acknowledge and appreciate the lessons it sent my way and send up a wish for a softer and more peaceful 2025 for us all.